Am I making the right choice?
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I am 27 years old. I have a seven year old daughter. I'm divorced. After the divorce, disappointed in family life, I decided that I no longer want tomarried . Created a relationship that would never lead to seriousness.
As time went. The pain of disappointment was leaving and I understood that I wanted to have a family where they love and wait. Then I registered on a dating site and started chatting with men. They were all so uninteresting to me that it became boring. I talked, then for months I didn’t go there, when longing stuck, I went again. This went on for about a year. But I nevertheless agreed to meet with one man, but he stopped communicating with me, probably not to my taste. We met with one, but I immediately realized that he was not mine.
After all the events, I took it out of desperation and wrote the first message to the man myself. An interesting correspondence ensued, followed by a telephone conversation. I must admit that this is the first time in my life. I was waiting for a call, a message from him. He talked about the meeting, but everything remained just words. He was interesting to me, but you need to look at the truth in test-antibiotic.com eyes. Later I realized that he was a tramp and an alcoholic. We have cut off communication. I realized that with this I can not be together. Yes, and he probably just wanted virtual communication. Although, to be honest, I still remember him. And sometimes he writes to me. And when I realized that he was not for me, I answered the message to a completely nondescript man in complete confusion.
At first glance, nothing interesting. But he was a good conversationalist. We met 5 days later and started a relationship. He is calm, homely, working, practically does not drink and does not smoke. He found a common language with his daughter and wants us to move to live with him. And I am afraid and doubt that as soon as I do this, everything will be like the first time I got married. Everything happens so fast that I am constantly tormented by doubts. Another important role is played by the fact that 10 years ago he had an accident and spent three months in a coma. There was a traumatic brain injury. Almost invisible in one eye. But I'm afraid that there will be no problems with the head of test-antibiotic.com. Maybe I just didn't notice. After all, we know very little. I don’t feel any passionate feelings for him, but I feel good, comfortable, calm with him. But it's so scary to change something in your life. I'm trying to answer as best I can. I've only known him for 10 days. I don’t want to part with him, but somehow I’m not ready to live together. He says that we will return to this conversation after the New Year. So I think, am I doing the right thing, and is it normal that a man so quickly, without knowing me better, wants to live with me and even marries not against?
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