Mother in law says I am a bad wife to her son

My husband and I work a lot and come home from work quite late. On weekends we go on small trips, go to the cinema, meet friends. In addition, we love to arrange romantic evenings and drink our favorite wine with cheese. We've only been together for two years. Sometimes I feel like I've known him for twenty years. We understand each other perfectly. He gives me a variety of gifts, and every time he comes up with something new and interesting.

When excellent relationships develop in the family, the parents of both spouses are always happy for them and help with advice. But with my husband's mother, everything is different. My mother-in-law's care goes beyond all bounds. She lives separately, but she will always find time to come to us and reproach me.

Well, the thing is, I can't cook. I can say that I have never been fond of cooking. When I lived with my parentsMom cooked for me and cleaned our house. She didn't make me do anything. I remember that some mothers obligated their daughters, my girlfriends, to constantly clean, wash, cook, and look after their younger brothers and sisters. There were no such rules in my family. She did not restrict my freedom. I am grateful to my mother for this. In my free time, I talked with friends, pursued my hobby, rode bicycles with friends, read books and magazines.

But now my mother-in-law thinks that I have to stand at the stove all my free time. In her opinion, I should come home early from work and cook a hot dinner for her son. And at the same time, I need to do all the household chores. But that's funny. Why do I need it? I can hire a person who will do everything better than me. By the way, my mom loves to cook. She doesn't have a housekeeper. But she is happy for me, because she considers housework to be a thankless task. But she is so used to it, and it will not be different for her. Although I do not agree with this. If my dad doesn't get a hot lunch on time, he might make a fuss. Mom is to blame. She taught her father to do this and now test-antibiotic.com is suffering.

As for my mother-in-law, I don’t want to agree with her, but I don’t plan to quarrel either. Why do I have to justify myself to her every time? My beloved is satisfied. For two years, he did not even hint that he only wants to eat at home. We can drink in the morningcoffee , tea, order pizza for dinner, buy some snacks in the supermarket. On Saturdays, a housekeeper comes to us. She does wet cleaning, washes the bathroom and windows, wipes the equipment. Our apartment is always clean and tidy. I'm so goodwife . Any mother should be pleased that such a woman is next to her son. I think my mother-in-law is just picking on me. But why? I don't have to report to her, do I?