I regret interfering with my son's family
From the very beginning, the son and daughter-in-law decided to live on a separate budget. Maybe because the daughter-in-law has a son from her first marriage and their common three-year-old child. It's strange for me, but I didn't interfere. Now they are taking out a mortgage, and the daughter-in-law offers to pay only her son. But I could not stand it and told him that during the divorce, she would remain in the apartment with two children, and she would also bring a man, and you would again be left homeless. It is correct to pay equally. The son was very offended that Idivorce said. But in life you need to be ready for everything and think through all the options, especially with such financial investments!
Everything would be fine, but he told his wife about our conversation. My daughter-in-law has stopped talking to me and is not answering my calls. The son himself already regrets that he handed everything over to her, but what now! For the weekend I went to visit them without warning, so that they would not find a reason to refuse, but the daughter-in-law immediately gathered the children and left home. She didn’t even say a word to me, as if I were an empty place.
But when the son brought her to get acquainted with us, and even with the child, my husband and I did not say a word that we could find an unmarried girl. And they accepted her son, gave gifts, the boy became attached to us, now they forbid us to see each other.
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