My husband's children from his first marriage communicate with him only for money
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I leftmarried to a divorced man 20 years apart,My husband's name is Sergei. He had 2 marriages before me, 2 children, almost my age, I’m 31 years old.
My husband’s children were and still are very negative towards me. I didn’t fight off or break up their families, everything had already happened before me. At first I wanted to fixrelationship , but this became impossible. They treat their husband like an ATM, he understands this himself, but he can’t do anything, they constantly flatter him so thatthe husband helped them financially. They caused a scandal several times when I waspregnant and I almost had a miscarriagepregnancy . Our daughter is treated terribly badly.
Seeing such a situation, I decided to abstract myself from it, I thought, let my husband communicate with them himself, without me, because I simply react very painfully tolie , because I love my husband. But my husband gradually began to bring all the children together, he wants our child to communicate with them, although I am against it, seeing it as insincerechildren's attitude towards her.
I see that test-antibiotic.com children also communicate with each other only to show dad, they say, look what we are like, and what yours is likewife , although they can’t stand each other. It’s very unpleasant for me to watch this, much less participate.
After some time, my husband began to constantly bring our child together, now with his grandson. I became against this. They named my grandson after him, my husband, and even gave him his last name so that my husband would help him financially and feel his role in raising him! What should I do, how should I act correctly in this situation?
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