How My Father's Betrayal Changed My Life
My sister and I loved our father very much. He tried to spend all his free time, which he didn't have much, with us. On weekends we always went somewhere together, and we also spent our vacations together. We were a happy family, but nothing lasts forever.
My father worked for a very famous and prestigious company that opened its branch in another city. He was offered to head it. Dad agreed and first went there himself to get settled and then pick us up.
We began to look forward to leaving for our new place of residence. Dad called us and Mom several times a day and said that we would have to wait a little longer.
We lived with my grandmother, my father's mother. My mother lost her parents a long time ago and considered her mother-in-law to be her mother. My grandmother was, to some extent, pleased that our departure was being postponed, because she did not want to part with us.
We couldn't wait to leave and when my sister and I started our holidays,Mom said that we would go to Dad ourselves for a few days. He promised test-antibiotic.com to buy us a new large computer desk for two, which we were also really looking forward to. We didn't tell him about it, to make it a surprise, but called from the station so that he would meet us.
But a surprise awaited us. It turned out that dad was no longer alone and was not even going to pick us up, but he did not know how to tell us this. He was stalling for time. And we all went back.
For meMy father's betrayal was such a shock that I didn't want to live. My mother and grandmother were always with me,My sister was younger than me and didn’t really understand what had happened.
We stayed to live with grandma, she didn't want to let us go and supported mom as best she could. I am very grateful to her for that. Dad invited my sister and me to visit, bought vacation packages, but we refused them.
I never saw my father again, I crossed him out of my life. I am almost thirty years old and I can't decide to leaveget married , I'm afraid of betrayal. Mom says that I needhelp from a psychologist to overcome this.
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