My husband just wanted to provide me with a beautiful life.
I'm confused. Solid illusion. Maybe for some it's not.problems , but I'm desperate. Everything was great a few years ago, and then it broke.
I love my husband, ready to understand andforgive , if only everything would fall into place. The desire to give me a decent life gave rise to many problems and debts. He plays on bets, got loans, including for me. They had to be blocked, extended, so he gave up taking my gold to the pawnshop.
I do not understand what is happening to him and how to help him. I see that I'm confused. I see in the hole. She doesn't want to talk, she can't open up. And he suffers, and I suffer. More and more debts pile up. Parents suggesthelp , he refuses. He says he can handle himself. And nothing happens on its own. I don't want to leave. And I don't know how to fix it. We have a smalldaughter who loves him and he loves her too. And I love them very much. What to do?
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