I stopped trusting my boyfriend because of constant deceptions
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When I had been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months, I found out that all this time he had been writing to different girls on one of the social networks. I met, talked, and invited me for a walk. To my question: “What is this?” He answered: “It’s not me, it’s Max (friend) who wrote it.” Still, I beat the whole truth out of him. He wrote this, but as he assured and still assures, he never wanted to go out with them and wrote simply out of nothing to do. He said that he missed my care and attention. I was busy studying, but I didn’t ignore it. He also said that he only wrote when he was sitting with a friend.
Immediately after our quarrel, he left thatsocial network , promised that this would not happen again. Now, when we have been together for 8 months, I found out that exactly a month after he left that social network. network, he wrote on VKontakte to another girl, her friend, I don’t know anymore, but maybe to someone else. test-antibiotic.com Called me to go for a walk. That day he was sitting with a friend. And again he assures me that he did not intend to go out with anyone and wrote for a friend, and not for himself. It has now been 2 months since I have had access to his page, and nothing like this has ever been noticed during this time.
But what’s annoying is that all these promises turned out to be false (isn’t that how it turns out?) and that in general there waslie . In fact, it is clear that he really loves me. And why would he spend so much time, money, and nerves on me? After all, I’m not even very beautiful in appearance. In general, I want to believe him, but it’s very difficult for me. We often quarrel over trifles. We both want to fix this. But we don’t know how, we both love each other.
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