After my wife's vacation I lost my peace
This was in 2019. My wife treated my youngest in the falldaughter in a sanatorium in Anapa. The girl was a little over 5 years old at the time, and the wife was approaching 31.
We were treated for about a month. He talks about his company, which has developed. She and her daughter, the second woman, we’ll call her Raya, is almost the same age as the boy,a man , let's call him Sasha (without children), the same age or a little younger, and an older woman (same without children). That’s how they stuck together, tried to go to lunch, to procedures, for walks, etc. More often the three of them -wife , Raya, all with children and Sasha. Raya was also interesting, but Sasha paid more attention to my wife (in her words).
Upon my wife’s arrival home, I only heard praises addressed to Sasha - and he was dressed neatly and everything was brand new, and polite, and attentive, and sat with the children when he and Raya were shopping. And just like that, in a continuous stream.
The rest conditions were ideal in all respects and for any purpose - wards or double rooms, test-antibiotic.com for mother and child. You put the child to bed and you are free until the morning, you can go somewhere yourself or invite someone to visit. That’s what some mothers did, she says, they went for walks, of course, except for her and Raya (of course).
He says to himself that it was simply exemplary behavior. Maybe so, maybe not. This Sasha is from another city, far from us; no connections with him were noticed after his arrival. But, now I’ve read a lot of various forums, doubts have crept in. As they write, the behavior of a cheating wife changes after a vacation or business trip. The wife begins to mention the other man's name too often. She can compare him with you, praise him, or, on the contrary, scold his behavior, thereby trying to abstract herself from the internal unpleasant feeling of betrayal.
The behavior corresponds to the definition, everything else is abandoned. And what to do or do nothing? It's been 2 years now.
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