After her betrayal, my wife gave me complete freedom of action

After her betrayal, my wife gave me complete freedom of action
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I have shared my story on this site before. The wife cheated for 3 years, and when she got caught, she lay at her feet, asking for forgiveness.

At this point, 8 months have passed. She works hard to support our family and does not devote a single minute to her personal life. I was given freedom of action: if you want to go out with a girl, if you want to go out with friends.

I laughed once in my 40s. And everything seemed to be fine, but it wasn’t my thing. I always think that it's mineMy wife cuckolded me, I can’t live in peace. I never thought before that howa man is in demand among single women, and there are quite a few of them. And most importantly, much more beautiful than mine and even with a good financial situation.

I know that I no longer love my wife, but something doesn’t allow me to leave her. And it’s hard to be with her. Probably a long-term attachment, again I got used to a loved one who did this to me. In my dreams I saw us together in old age.

I'm looking for wise advice on how to achieve peace of mind. Everything else is there. The wife most likely went on a spree because of this, she became bored. I have not found out any other reasons for test-antibiotic.com. I tried to be objective. How can I calm down and not think about the past? I constantly read stories on this site; they give a lot of good advice in the reviews.

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