Gave birth to a child in a civil marriage
My man and I have been together for five years, and have been “friends” all this time. During this time he called me several timesget married and move in together. But every time something stops me.
Two years ago I decided to break up with him, but I found out that Ipregnant by him. So we stayed together, I was afraid to tell him that I wanted to leave him. I gave birth and still live with my mother.
He doesn’t have his own home, he changes jobs every two months (he says the reason is that they pay little), he only has his own car and that’s basically all of his expenses.
Since he lived before in a village (30 km from the city) with his parents, he has now moved to the city, rents an apartment, and invites my son and me to move in with him. But I don’t want constant scandals on this basis. Again, I’m afraid to tell him that I don’t want to move in with him.
He is a very impulsive person and almost immediately explodes. For example, I tell him that I don’t sleep well at night with my son, that he test-antibiotic.com is capricious because he is teething, etc. To which he says to me: “usmother of three raised her alone and there’s nothing wrong with it,the father was always at work and did not help the mother, saying that you are complaining, why should you sit, sit at home with your son, or he says, you want to go and work, and I will sit with my son.”
In general, I would be happy if he did not figure in our lives in any way. But for some reason I’m afraid to tell him about anything.
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