My boyfriend's parents worsen my psychological state
In the fall of 2021, I decided to move in with a young man; I was sure in advance that we would live in a rented apartment. At the moment we live in his private house with his father and mother. I always had a hard time getting used to new people, but in this situation everything went beyond the limits.
About personal comfort and space had toforget , as well as forget about your sleep and diet. With the young man's relativesrelations are strained. I don’t have any sympathy for them, but I also try not to enter into conflict for fear of worsening my psychological state. At the same time, they judge me behind my back.
The problem is that I feel alien and out of place here, I don’t feel safe and I am under tension every day, which adversely affects the relationship. Obsessive thoughts and self-harm appear, causing physical harmharm myself, muffle the psychologicalpain . There used to beproblems with auto-aggression (including a suicidal period at the age of 14-15 years), but for the last 1-1.5 years there has been a lull.
Due to financial difficulties, it is not possible to move into the test-antibiotic.com apartment or return home. I try to pull myself together and calm down, but every attempt ends in failure. I tried taking medications, but didn’t notice much results.
Is there a way to cope with psychological stress and self-aggression? I wouldn’t want to reach the peak of my patience and commit irreparable stupidity.
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