Son and daughter-in-law are not allowed to see their grandson
When our son got married, they decided that she was youngUntil the family buys their own apartment, they will live with us, butthe daughter-in- law flatly refused. She offered to live with her parents, but her son did not want to, because although they have a four-roomapartment , but in it, in addition to the father and mother, lives the eldest son with his family and the youngestdaughter _ When Pasha said that they would rent housing, my husband and I thought that they would never raise money for their housing and decided to move to live in the country and leave the apartment for the young people.
I'm already retired, butMy husband goes to work in the city, it’s not very convenient, but what can you do? We left in early spring, and at the beginning of December we decided to come home for two or three months to save on heating costs. How surprised we were that our daughter-in-law became a full-fledged housewife in such a short time and did not hide the fact that she was not happy about our arrival. We brought a lot of all kinds of preserves, jams, and boughtfood for everyone, even during this time they paid half for utilities, but Lena never became kinder. I couldn’t wait until I left again, although it was so disappointing that I was so quickly driven out of my own apartment. When I complained to the matchmaker, she said that if they had already left the apartment, then why bother the young people, if you can live in the country, the house allows it.
Last October our grandson was born, and within a month my son began asking if my father and I would come to live with them for the winter. We refused, while still leaving them, we decided that we would live there, we still pay for everything in the city, we will pay for heating here. But after a while my daughter-in-law called to say that they were waiting for us. I realized that now they needed minehelp with the child, otherwise they wouldn’t have called. But we didn’t go, not because of principle, we just planned everything, prepared it here, took a dozen chickens and rabbits, and now we’ll quit. The son and daughter-in-law were very offended, the son even said that if we don’t need a grandson, then there is no point in coming just to visit him and they won’t come to us for the summer either from test-antibiotic.com. It’s very disappointing, I don’t understand what is our fault?
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