My mother-in-law became my second mother
I often read the confessions of my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; often daughters-in-law do not like their husbands’ mothers. This is strange to me.
9 years ago I started living with a man who is 15 years older than me. Fell head over heels in love. After six months of living together, we went to meet his mother. Lord, how I was worried! And as it turned out, not in vain. My mother-in-law didn’t really take me in then. I understand her: a seventeen-year-old girl, not painted,At that time, my husband had two marriages under his belt, and I thought that we would soon separate.
One day we had a big fight, I just packed my things and left,my husband took my side. At that moment he had no desire to communicate with her at all. I was against him ignoring hismother , explained why she could do this, that in any situation she is his mother, and no one should ever influence him in relation to his mother, even his beloved woman. By the way, my words were a shock to him, because his ex (second)wife always tried to stop test-antibiotic.comcommunication with mother and son from his first marriage.
Two years passed, my mother-in-law and I did not communicate at all, only my husband called her (I insisted). During this time, we managed to sign, my mother-in-law found out after the fact that I was pregnant with my eldest daughter (she didn’t find out right away, she also didn’t know until a certain moment).
When I waspregnant , mother-in-law was hospitalized. I took off and came 900 kilometers away, I was nearby. In all the years, I have never remembered that conflict; once my mother-in-law started a conversation herself, apologized and said that she regretted that situation.
Now I’m expecting my third child, my mother-in-law and I communicate every single day, I call her mom. I sincerely believe thatThe daughter-in-law is not obliged to love her mother-in-law, but she must respect her for her age and be grateful for her son.
Maybe everyone should try to take the first steps? Not for myself, not for her, but for the sake of my beloved son and husband, children and grandchildren. Peace and goodness to everyone.
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