I don't want my daughter to invite her father to her wedding

I don't want my daughter to invite her father to her wedding
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Immediately after the birth of our daughter, my husband and I divorced, and it was my initiative. Somehow I was instantly turned away from this man. Numerous courts. He left. He paid final alimony, and then stopped altogether, sometimes sending $30 for the child’s birthday. And closer to her 17th birthday, he wrote that he was having difficulties and would never be able to help us.

During this period he married and had two children. Nowdaughter get married got ready. Becamequestion whether to invite him to the wedding or not. I am against the invitation! If he comes, then I won’t come. Why is it needed at a wedding? I raised my daughter myself. We saw practically no money from him. He did not take part in his upbringing. Why is he at the wedding?

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