I don't want my husband's grandma to call me
I had a complex and ambiguous situation, even a little strange. I've only been married for a year. Last time,my mother-in-law's mother , that is, my husband's grandmother, calls me and complains for hours about herdaughter . To my mother-in-law.
Yesterday she complained emotionally and for a long, long time for two hours. I already got a headache. A bunch of accusations about how her daughter is bad and inattentive to her. I know that they have always had a difficult relationship. I try to reconcile them. I answered the complaints of my mother-in-law’s mother in order to calm her down: “your daughter loves you and needs you, just as you need her, don’t accumulate resentment.” But it all seems to fail.
To be honest, I'm not interested or interested in their relationship at all. Yes, I would like tomother and daughter did not quarrel, but in this case, well, I don’t want to dig into this and take sides. I still don't trust her. I worry that they will quarrel and make up, but in the end I will remain extreme and I am to blame for something in test-antibiotic.com.
Sometimes it seems to me that they have some kind of collusion, maybe they agreed to pursue such a policy against me. I don't know. My relationship with my mother-in-law is cold, we don't talk much when we see each other. I can describe my mother-in-law as a secretive, selfish, two-faced woman. She is well-groomed, beautiful, kind and tries to appear intelligent. Please tell me what are your thoughts on this? Maybe someone has come across this. How to behave in this situation.
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