Why am I worse than other guys?

Why am I worse than other guys?
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I'm ashamed of myself. Self-examination of the last two years has helped to reveal many shortcomings, but some of them I am not able to correct. For example, height (total 178), appearance.

In terms of income, I try, but I couldn’t get more than $1,000 a month (and even then this level was only reached once; I live in a city with a population of over a million).

He devoted a lot of time to work and study. I was always ashamed to express my sympathy, so as not to seem weak. Yes andgirls were never interested in me. Failures on dating sites only confirmed this. Apparently, they will only date me if I make good money. Otherwise I'm not needed.

How to get rid of this condition? Am I such a misunderstanding that in the age of free morals I didn’t even really kiss? I am independent in everyday life, I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I don’t suffer from gambling addiction, I don’t separate responsibilities into male and female.

I want mutual care and tenderness. But all these unspent reserves, apparently, will go out in me without being used in reality.

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