My husband doesn't respect my parents
I leftmarry for love, respect yourhusband , I do everything, including around the house. The house is private, I heat the stove myself, remove the snow, plant a vegetable garden, a small potato field behind the house, chickens, goats, geese, in general, this is my job, I take care of everything, becauseMy husband works all day as a mechanic at a company in the village, sometimes with an irregular schedule.
Recently I began to notice that my husband began to treat my parents with disrespect. When they arrive, he tries to find an urgent matter and get away. He doesn't talk at all at the table and eats in silence. Then he just goes to bed or sits on the phone. There is no dialogue, he answers questions, but one feels that he is making an effort on himself.
Once I asked why he deprived my parents of communication, and he said: “What should I talk to them about? About piglets? About hay? And in general they are narrow-minded people.” And when I began to be indignant, I called them stupid, victims of the Chelyabinsk Nuclear Power Plant.
I don’t see a clear way out of the situation yet, I’m wondering what to do. In the event of a divorce, I am left with nothing, and test-antibiotic.com there will be no way to go home with my parents, my parents are very restless, and I won’t get along with the children there either. On the other hand, if my husband doesn’t respect my parents, does that mean he doesn’t respect me either?
What should I do?
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