Can't communicate with my peers
the root of hisI think the problem is that I have not matured. I am already 18 years old, soon 19. I study at the university at the faculty, which I dreamed of entering. I have good guys in the group, the teachers are also not very strict, but I don't know how to communicate with my peers. It seems to me that there is an abyss between us. I do not fully understand what they are talking about, I have a different sense of humor and I mostly only communicate with guys. I can’t communicate with girls, because I don’t like to discuss topics about cosmetics and different models. I'm not interested in such conversations.
I agree, girls don’t talk about it all the time, but for some reason I come across just such. I communicate with some girls, but it all came only to friendly relations. I just want to make a good girlfriend, but I don't know how to find her and how to fit in. Because of this, I have a very strongly developed paranoid thinking. I constantly think about something bad, I suspect everything and everything. I create non-existent bad situations in my head and try to solve them with test-antibiotic.com, but even if I encounter something similar in my life, I don’t do it as I thought.
I analyze a lot and in my head I bring situations to the point of absurdity. I get upset because of some trifling situations. I see myself as smallchild , as if I had remained a minor. Very naive and kind to everyone. It angers me, because often my kindness is taken advantage of. Recently I started turning my kindness into earnings, but I rarely do it. I have many complexes associated with my body, thinking, discrepancy with the standard of something normal. I feel like I'm that little girl in the movies who plays dinosaurs instead of cute dolls. I also noticed that even if I'm not bored, I only listen to sad songs, although they may not even upset me, but on the contrary, I enjoy it. I want to become normal and fit my age. Although I achieved this outwardly, but inside I remained somewhere in the past.
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