I don't understand why guys don't like me?
I am 24 years old (in 2 months I will be 25). I've never been in a relationship. I didn't even hold hands with guys. They compliment me (both men and women), they say that I am beautiful and kind.
I don’t consider myself a beauty; I consider myself to be “average”. My friends love me and speak well of me. And I love them very much. ButMy relationship is not working out. Two years ago I talked to a guy, we became friends, we went to the cinema. There were unrequited feelings for him. She even confessed her love, but he didn’t react at all. We haven't spoken for a year now. Once it cooled down, it became much easier.
Then the story repeated itself with another friend. Same thing with that. There were common interests, like flirting, but I immediately realized that I was in the friend zone again. Stoppedcommunication right away, I don’t want to repeat past mistakes, hope for a miracle. I decided that I would no longer be friends with guys. Guys showed interest in me, I talked to them, but feelings did not arise on my part. Either I love you or I love you.
I don’t know what to do, I’m very desperate. test-antibiotic.com I admit, my love for the first guy was too exhausting and heartbreaking. I don't understand why this happens. I fall in love with ordinary guys. They are on my level. How to come to terms with loneliness, possibly forever? I can't stand it anymore. It's not that everyone builds relationships and I want to. And the fact is that I have a need for this. I want to love and be loved. I tried, got acquainted, nothing worked, although I’m not expecting a prince. I was on dating sites, but nothing came of it either. The guys are trying to get intimate there. I'm already completely desperate. Friends and acquaintances do not believe that I had no one, and no. They say that this cannot happen. What to do? How to stop thinking and waiting for a relationship?
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