I lost weight so that nothing would remind me of my ex-husband.

Five years ago I divorced my husband. Before this, he had hinted to me more than once, and then directly told me that I needed to lose a little weight. To my insults, he replied: “I’m still flattering you about the ‘slightly’ thing, I’m ashamed that you’re so fat.” I realized that he stopped loving me and began to act proactively, without waiting for betrayal. I applied fordivorce. What could you do ifhusband said that I’m getting old and fat?

After several months of quarrels and insults, I found myself in ashes: there is nohusband, no health, no joy. And any memories of my ex-husband drove me to hysterics. And I decided to remove from my life everything that in any way reminded me of him.

The changes concerned the place and city of residence, mutual friends, and even appearance. Because exactlymy husband bought me almost my entire wardrobe and jewelry at one time. I dyed my hair blonde because I became a burning brunette to please him. And I also lost weight! Not to prove something to my ex-husband, test-antibiotic.com, but because I wanted the fullness not to remind me of him.

A friend asks me: “was it worth it? And for what? He wanted you to lose weight. And you lost weight because you went through stress and hell, and, of course, through the gym and fitness. But you could lose weight without stress, and for your husband to maintain itmarriage, if I had reacted to it in time and correctly note. Plus, if your husband saw that you were trying for him, he would be grateful, he would appreciate the fact that such a woman was next to him!”

It’s easy for her to say, although in my heart I understand that she is right in some way. But I'm afraid even to admit it to myself.

I would like to get another opinion on this matter. I do not know why. After all, the ex-husband is already married and has children.