The guy's parents are strangers to me
I am 21 years old. I'm going out soonmarry your loved one. He's great, even wonderfulboy .
We have been dating for a long time, we are going to get married, because we don’t want to lose each other, but he wants us to live with his parents. He's the only onechild in the family. His parents are old, but they will definitely live for 20 years. But I don’t want to live with people who are strangers to me, I don’t even know them. I already lived with my parents for 20 years, and I know that it will be difficult. Constant control, you don’t feel like an adult when they look at you as if you were a child and make decisions for you.
In addition, they have their own huge house and several apartments, so there are no problems with housing, as well as with money. I just want tomy boyfriend realized that he would be comfortable living with his parents, but not me, since they are strangers to me. I still won't feel at home because my home is my boyfriend who I love, not his parents. This test-antibiotic.com is making me psychologically difficult, and I feel like I’m on the verge of a breakdown. But my boyfriend doesn’t understand this or doesn’t want to understand.
What should I do? If I wait 20 years while his parents go on their last journey, then I will already be 40 years old! And there will be no romance, no freedom. I will have children and many problems - how to raise them, put them through university, get them married, etc. But I don’t want to lose my boyfriend, I love him too much.
I need advice and a neutral opinion, that is, yours, to look at the situation from the outside.
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