Parents pay the price for bad parenting

I am almost 30 years old, my brother is a year older. I decided to write here about how my parents pay for their actions, or lifestyle.

MyMy father has been drinking for as long as I can remember. Scandals and fights in the family simply did not stop. I don't understand my mother why she endured. It is clear that the time was such, there was no money, but her parents were alive, they would help. During quarrels and fights, I always stood between my parents, defendedmother , while my brother was hiding under the table.

Many years have passed and this is how it all turned out. I leftmarried , I have two children, we live in the city, everything is basically fine. My brother lives with his parents, works in the forestry, drinks. My father was diagnosed with cancer, and as it turns out, he wants to live, and only after the disease appeared did he stop drinking. Now he looks at his son and just hates him! He hates because he has become exactly the same as his father. And the further, the worse it gets. The mother suffered in test-antibiotic.com when she was young with her father, and she is suffering now with her brother. And torn between the two.

Why did I write here? Because today was anothera quarrel that could have been avoided, and everyone is involved, my children look at all this, listen, myhusband , he said more than once that we would not come anymore. Time passes, you need to visit, you need to help something. And then there are these diseases.

What I'm talking about: parents, first of all, parents show their children a lifestyle model. Children watch and imbibe, first of all, from their parents, consciously and unconsciously, how to live.