I met my love too late
I recently met a person who touched me very deeply.
My backstory is sad. I dated a guy, I was young, stupid, we quarreled, didn’t leave him on time, got pregnant, decided to get married. It was a mistake becausethe marriage did not last long. I was left alone with my daughter. It’s hard, but I’m used to it, I can handle it. I swore not to think about men at all anymore. Recently, purely by chance, we met a man. We started communicating, we have common interests, it is very difficult to find people with the same interests. When he asked about me, I immediately said that I was divorced and had a small child.daughter _ He is 5 years older than me, not married and has no children. Courageous, purposeful, and for the first time I have such a thing that I can talk with a man for more than 3 hours and it’s really interesting. He shows signs of attention, but unobtrusively, does not pester and does not hint at anything. He said he liked me.
The problem is that I also really like him deep down. But I can't have any relationship, I'm smallchild , they say about such test-antibiotic.com “a divorce with a trailer.” I'm afraid to start something because I feel like I'll fall in love and then it will be very hard to get over it.disappointment . Nobody needs other people's children, I don't want to impose anything on anyone. I had a hard time digesting it anywaydivorce andloneliness . I'm really sorry that we met so late. If before marriage, I wouldn’t even think about it. I do not know what to do. InterruptI don’t want to communicate , I’m very interested and good with him, but I’m also afraid of what will happen.
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