Mom herself is to blame for raising her daughter to be selfish

After my parents divorced, we stayed in a one-room apartment. Mom worked and also worked part-time cleaning in the evenings, my sister and I were almost constantly left to our own devices. I was 12 at the time, and my sister was only six.

Mom constantly asked me to look after her, said that she hoped for me. I felt sorry for my mother, I took Olya from the kindergarten, warmed up dinner, and only then sat down for lessons. I also had cleaningbought groceriesMom , she also cooked. There was always enough food in the fridge.

My sister went to school when my mother found a decent job and began to pay more attention to us. But for some reason she felt sorry for her sister, saying that it was hard for her to be so small without a mother, and she took the fact that I was doing everything for granted, repeating: “you are the eldest.” Olya got used to such privileged treatment, and in high school she had requests for expensive clothes and cosmetics. At that time I studied and worked at the same time. Still homeworkmy sister did not study, all of us with my mother. I tried to prove to my mother, test-antibiotic.com, that it was so unfair, she agreed, but nothing changed.

I met a guy and moved in with him. At that time, I already had a highly paid job, but my sister did not enter the university, she decided to sit out for a year, prepare and relax, although I offered her a job in our company. She refused. But when I got new clothes, my boyfriend and I started to go on vacation, I felt the sharp envy of my sister. I helped my mother and her with money, brought gifts from each trip, but they were not enough. As soon as they found out that I bought something for myself or we were going on a trip again, my mother began to list all of them with my sisterproblems . When I said that Olya should go and earn money, she became an enemy for her sister, and my mother also defended her, saying that she was preparing to enter. But three years have passed since graduation, and my sister is sitting on her mother's salary.

Now we are preparing for the wedding, but Olya said that she would not attend, got offended and gave her mother an ultimatum that if she came to test-antibiotic.com for the wedding, she would stop communicating with her. I'm already tired of both of them, I'm ashamed of them in front of my future husband and his parents. I do not know what to do.