I suspect my colleagues of non-traditional sexual orientation
I'm working at a new job now. I work hard with managementRelations are normal, with the team too. But I'm very annoyed by my twoColleagues . One of them is a 37-year-old woman, divorced and with a child. Her character is very domineering. She is a complex person and, at times, even vile. But he is a good specialist. Management appreciates her, andthe team tries to avoid it. Because she strives to do something bad to everyone, to get around them somehow, to lie to the management. She treats everyone with half-contempt, except for the men she makes eyes at, and except for that second employee.
The second employee is young and beautifulgirl , divorced, no children, quite wealthy. She has nothing in common with the first employee, except that they are both divorced.
They irritate me with their behavior. They work in different departments, but the younger one always hangs around the older one. And there is always physical contact. They hug when one sits, for example, at the computer, and the second stands over her and talks. The young one is always giving the older one a neck and shoulder massage, combing her, doing all sorts of hairstyles for her, giving her a manicure. He can test-antibiotic.com stand for hours, kneading her shoulders or going through her hair. The eldest sits all exhausted, as if after a bath, and asks in a languid voice: “More.”
From the outside it looks like they are both gay. And such people scare me a little. All this hugging and affection happens during working hours. And it’s hard to concentrate on work when these two are cooing around the entire office. They also, of course, have lunch together and constantly drink tea. It's amazing that they still have time to do something at work.
Recently, the youngest began to communicate with me too tenderly. He comes to talk about work and reaches out to stroke my back.
I'm afraid that if they are, indeed, gay, could this mean that she is pestering me? Or is this just a person whose personal distance is reduced?
Read together with it:
- Is there a limit?She got married early, at the age of 18. Before that we dated for 3 years. The relationship was not cloudless; there was friction, difficulty, separation, and reconciliation. But we decided to be together. The relationship continued to be difficult, I can’t praise myself, I behaved like a child: cap...
- Colleague and boss's relative plays games at workThree months ago, I finally found my dream job: interesting tasks, good salary, close to home and a very cozy office with modern furniture and office equipment. And our people are excellent, the management is sane and does not find fault with little things. It would seem that work and enjoy life, bu...
- Should I hope that my husband will change or decide on a divorce?My husband and I have been married for 15 years. We have two wonderful children growing up (a son is 10 years old, and a daughter is 2 years old), but lately, ourrelations began to deteriorate rapidly.Previously oursmy family inspired me, and now I find myself thinking more and more often thatthe hu...
- The husband decided that it was better to get a divorce than to look for a jobMy husband and I have been married for 5 years. We moved to another city and rented an apartment here. Two years later my beloved appeareddaughter . We lived not without quarrels, but we tried not to find outrelationship with a child. A year agoMy husband was laid off at work and scandals began to h...
- I'm worried about my past, which I'm afraid to even rememberI'm a believera girl , but she wasn’t always one. Before I accepted baptism and Christ into my heart, I did things that I deeply regret. You will be very surprised, but I come from a believing family and my parents do not know anything about this. I always dreamed of going outI married a virgin, but...
- Unexpected meeting with ex-boyfriendI am 23 years old. From the age of 17 to 21 I had my firstLove . We were like we looked perfect from a movie. The relationship is perfect. These were precisely those feelings that did not cool down, despite the time. But at 19 I get pregnant. I tell him about this, and he says that I need to have an...
- My loneliness and emptiness in my soulI don’t remember a time when I could call my family prosperous in terms of the psychological climate at home, but until that year, at least we maintained the level of strong, needy “middle peasants” financially.Living together was not comfortable, even though each family member was assigned a room. ...
- Noisy musical talent next doorMy name is Konstantin, I am 37 years old. I live alone in a small apartment left from my parents in a panel house with good audibility. I have good onesrelations with all neighbors. At least, they were good until recently, when a young talent appeared in the neighbor’s apartment, passionately intere...
- Why couldn't I find a common language with the children?My eldest son is 42 years old, he was also raised by his stepfather. I have almost the same situation as in the confession thatmy son doesn't want to communicate. But I don't blame my son. It's all her own fault. When I was little, I probably didn’t love you enough, didn’t caress you enough! And whe...
- How I became a freelance photographerSince childhood, I really liked drawing and photography. I don’t know why, except for me, no one in the family was interested in this, did not support me, but did not forbid me either. The only problem was that film (and when I was little, there were no digital cameras yet) was expensive, developing...