I don't approve of my mom's choice
Now I'm 20 years old. Two years ago, my dad suddenly died due to a doctor’s mistake, and my mom and I were left alone. But six months later she found solace in another man. Andrey is 10 years older than her, he has a smalldaughter , she is 5 years old. Andrey is divorced, but still lives with his wife, supposedly she has nowhere to move. Lies . But that's not what this is about.
I was completely okay with them being together, Andrei and himdaughter moved in with us. Mom needs a strong shoulder, but sooner or later I will move away from her anyway. But after they moved in with us, the horror began. His exthe wife , naturally inadequate and drunk, began to threaten her mother, attack her, and fight. To which Andrey did not react at all. He only said that he wanted to deprive her of parental rights. But when I, having a secondary specialized legal education, compiled all the documents for him, collected evidence and explained how to act, he ignored me and said that he felt sorry for this woman.
Don’t I feel sorry for my mother test-antibiotic.com? We talked to my mother and she agreed that thisthe man does not deserve to be a member of our family. I looked after his child, he can’t hammer a nail, he couldn’t protect the current woman from his ex-wife, and he decided to send the child, who is afraid of his own mother, to her and not solve this problem. I kicked Andrey out. And everything would be fine, but she and her mother still continue to meet secretly. And I know that everything continues in the same spirit. Threats, insults, attacks. Mom only gets offended at me when I try to explain something to her and shouts that I am “completely crazy.”
I feel that if she doesn’t stop these meetings, then when I go to live in another city in a year, we will stop communicating altogether. She understands this and still does not want to solve this problem. I have a feeling that someone else’s man is more valuable to her than her own daughter. And I believe that she simply can find much better.
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