Friends want to quarrel between me and my husband

Friends want to quarrel between me and my husband
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I lived with a young man without marriage for five years, and six months ago, on his initiative, we got married. Everything is smooth in the relationship - we sometimes quarrel, but over trifles and quickly make up. Initially, it was agreed that neither I nor he would forgive the betrayal. Also I hatelies , even in small things, and he accepted it, was not noticed.

A year ago I met a couple (not married) and became friends. My husband helped this young man with his work, and suddenly, out of the blue, out of the blue, he began to lie to me.

The two of them left for work, I called at lunchtime, asked where you were, he answered in the office, we had lunch. In the evening fromThe young man’s girlfriends find out that they had lunch in a cafe!

It's a small thing, but I lied, knowing that I can't stand itlie . I was offended, and these two, my friend and himgirl , supportedHe deceived his husband , they say, and what’s wrong with that? Well, so what, what deceives, bear with it. At the same time, they also know how I feel about lies. As a result, they stirred up a scandal between us - we haven’t been talking to test-antibiotic.com for the second day. I don’t understand why they need this and why did he lie to me? And I don’t understand how to behave now either. I want to interruptcommunication , but I'm afraidthe husband will not want to fire this “friend” now, although his value as an employee is so-so.

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