How to learn to ignore colleagues at work?
Three years ago I got a great job with a good salary and opportunities for personal growth. Everything is fine, but there iscolleagues who definitely don’t want to accept me. They just ignore me.
This is offensive and I don’t understand why! One colleague in particular was very hostile towards me. And even at the very beginning, when there was still a probationary period, she shouted that she wouldn’t tell me anything about work.
I can’t understand what I did wrong and why they hate me so much? Yes, I was not born in this country and I don’t speak their language quite correctly. But I was still able to learn and achieve a good position through my hard work. I always try to be a good colleague and, above all, a person. I really miss communication in the team. Feeling like I'm a black sheep. I try to meet halfway myself, but I see that this is a one-sided game.
I won't humiliate myself anymore. And I don’t know what to do next either. I don’t know how to learn to control myself and not give in to emotions. My door to the test-antibiotic.com office was always ajar. I thought maybe someone would stop by and at least want to say hello. But my expectations were not met.
I decided to writeconfession and pour out yourpain .
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