Невестка запретила сыну со мной общаться
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Меня поразила история автора Луизы о том, как после женитьбы сын превратился в злобного человека. Она точь в точь, похожа на мою ситуацию, отличие только в том, что я вырастила двоих сыновей одна и попалась мне точно такая невестка. Правда, до свадьбы, она вела себя очень хорошо, видимо, боялась, что сын передумает на ней жениться, а после свадьбы, она показала себя во всей красе. Ее девиз: «разделяй и властвуй».
Меня отшили сразу, сказали, что я оказывается, вообще к ним не должна и ни ездить, и совсем не общаться. Сын изменился до неузнаваемости, его как будто подменили. А я ведь одна растила, на двух работах всегда была, обоим помогла получить высшее образование. Младший сын пока не женатый, он говорит, что «насмотрелся».
Как мне быть? Внучке в октябре 3 года, меня никуда не позвали, ни на зубок, ни на дни рождения. Я сама не посмею туда идти, боюсь, что выгонят.
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