Alphonse and me
I am 34 years old, he is 24. But, despite his age, he is quite serious, and you cannot say that he is that many years old, at least he is my age.
We agreed tritely: I feel bad, and he is my friend (and business partner). At first they met, and then suddenly he offered to live together. I have 2 apartments and a house is being built. There is also a car. He lives with his mother and grandmother in a three-ruble note, but in Kyiv, and I am outside the city. My condition: you want to be with me and go to everything ready, pay my mortgage,mortgage apartment , the balance is already small. I’m not mercantile, but if you really want to use everything mine and expensive (and I bought good things), move to a completely new apartment (new building), but he didn’t buy anything there.
So, after 2 months, he has a collapse in business. I, as a decent woman, wanted to help him. Opened another store. Which lay on my neck like a yoke, he clearly did not want to work. The morning began with swearing - he didn’t want to work, but test-antibiotic.com wanted to sleep (for example, until 15), I was tiredswear and I left alone. Another scandal, why didn't I push him. After 5 months, I stopped doing anything at all. I let the situation take its course.
Then there were complaints that I did not give money. My answer: "did you earn them?". I pay for absolutely everything. He begs for cigarettes and blames me for not having enough money, while Svetka went on a cruise. Now I have limited it in everything. Made me go to work. But he has not paid for the apartment for a long time, because there is nothing. But he has big plans.
And so I thought, should I move in with his parents? I will not pay for a communal apartment, I will not cook. I will live like he "know nothing". Advise on how to put the guy in his place? He helps, of course, and looks after the cars (I bought a second one), but I can’t raise my son. And yes, I don't want to have sex with him. No half a year. And I get constantly reprimanded for it.
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