Jealous of my boyfriend for his sisters
My story may seem silly, but for me this is a real problem that I myself can not cope with.
We have been together with my boyfriend Misha for almost a year, I love him very much, he seems to like me too. He has a sister and a cousin (we are peers, we are all 15-16 years old). And that's the whole problem with his sisters: I have an unimaginable jealousy for them. And there are good reasons for that.
The fact is that when we are not together, Misha spends all the time with them. It is not clear what he finds in common with them - they are girls, and he is a guy! But their communication is constant. In addition, he constantly drags them in conversations, to the place and not to the place, which is terribly annoying. Whatever I do, he compares me with them, and the comparison is not always in my favor. It pisses you off when you realize that you do not correspond to some of his ideals, which he sees in his sisters.
I am not hysterical and I understand that test-antibiotic.com is his relatives, that this is part of his life, but I cannot accept this, I cannot constantly endure these comparisons and feel flawed against their background. In addition, I am forced to compete with them for his attention and time, and this already does not climb into any gates! A lot of his free time, which Misha could spend alone with me, he spends on his sisters, helps them with computers and homework, understands any of their personal issues. Or he drags them to the beach with us, so we can't be alone.
I'm just insanely jealous of a guy, but not to other girls (here you can’t find fault with him, I admit), but to his sisters! I can’t do anything about it, I’ll seem to forget, but he will definitely remind me. I don't even like looking at their photos together. I'm holding back to the last of my strength, but I feel that I won't be able to endure it for long.
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