Mother-in-law demands money for living with them

Mother-in-law demands money for living with them
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I am a teacher of elementary grades, the salary is beggarly. The husband is a security guard in the store, earnings are also not so hot. Therefore, we cannot rent an apartment, but we live with his parents. The mother-in-law suggested it herself.

I did not want to live with them, but I thought that this way we could save on renting an apartment. But it was not there! The mother-in-law already in the first month said that we should pay half the amount for utilities. I said that half is a lot, we are not at home all day, and the mother-in-law does not save water and light. Let them pay more.

She complained to my husband, and he made a scandal. He accused me of ingratitude to his mother, saying that we have to pay for utilities ourselves, because we live in our parents' apartment. I agreed, since there was no way out, we will not pull the rent. But from that day on, I completely ignored my mother-in-law. She was offended, tried to make peace, but she became unpleasant to me as a person.

And today, she said that we should buy food for everyone, she even wrote a list. test-antibiotic.com argument - she cooks, wewe bring products . Apparently, the mother-in-law decided that for the first time she was able to insist on her own and this time it will work out. The list wasmayonnaise , which is neither me nor mineHusband don't eat. And many more things that we never buy for ourselves. My husband's parents love to eat delicious food, they can't go a day without meat, but Ifruits andI prefer vegetables .

I decided that it would be better to pay rent in a communal apartment, but I will not live with my mother-in-law. It remains only to convince her husband.

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