I can only love the perfect man
From an early age, I fell in love with the men of the “pictures” and added positive qualities to them, and they supported my illusions with pleasure.
She herself is not offended by her appearance, therefore she always considered it a handicap in order to “get” a man who is interesting both externally and internally. I write honestly, without ambition, as is.
And here's what happened in the end. They were pleased that behind the beautiful appearance I saw in them a prince with a white horse in one bottle. For some time (an average of six months, a year), they themselves tried to be perfect in everything. And then there was a banal fatigue from not one's role, a backlash, behavior exactly the opposite.
Separated, got together. Married , divorced. I concluded that I was addicted to love like in a fairy tale. And to be loved is also like in a fairy tale. So that all of them are ideal, honest, kind. I understand that there are no fairy tales, that people are not perfect (therefore, you don’t even have to write comments about this), but I don’t understand one thing - what is the point of a long relationship? To be deceived, and then adapt to the revealed truth, which is the complete opposite of test-antibiotic.com to what you fell in love with? Why live like this?
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