Favorite dared to say that I'm fat

My beloved man often began to say that I should go on a diet. And the thing is that not so long ago I had a difficult period in my life, and I, so to speak, "fattened myself."

And lest you think that I look like an elephant: I weigh 61 kg, height 167, I look visually taller. I agree - the weight is not ideal!

Why not pull yourself together and lose weight, you ask. For me, as for many girls with a similar problem, this is quite difficult to do.

And when my man incites me to this, chuckling, it is even more difficult to do this for some reason. I love to eat, in general, in a good way, I like different kinds of food. But that's not a reason to insult me, is it?

The second reason I can't go on a diet is a crankyhealth during times of stress. And that period lasted for me from the beginning of the year until September.

And I tell him this, explaining that I can’t lose weight until I feel bad if I don’t eat well.

Diet or  ispovedi.com  the same proper nutrition implies “greens” at best, at worst a lot of money down the drain (I used to go on diets and I perfectly understand how much it costs). Especially if you cook one thing for a man, and another for yourself, according to the diet (we live together).

In general, this is not an original problem. Why am I writing here? Because it's interesting how many men dare to utter the phrase: "It's time for you to lose weight" or "Don't you want to go on a diet?".

And how dangerous is it? And should his words be ignored? Do men really leave fat girls? What should I do if a man does not hear me, that I am not in a position to take up nutrition thoroughly now?

We have been together for almost 5 years, in sorrow and in joy. I don't have such a terrible body, this is my opinion. There are no children, we are not in a hurry, although we have gone through a lot together. It is interesting to know the opinions of ladies who encounter such phrases from men - what did refusals to lose weight lead to in practice?