Mother in law ignores me

Mother in law ignores me
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My mother-in-law is strange to say the least. Before, everything was just fine. We called upEvery day , we talked for an hour or more. She often called me herself. I calmly came to visit her, if anything, I consulted. She always tried to reconcile us with her husband. And then she broke off the chain.

Myhusband is in the army and will be back in 2 months. The first time the service was just fine. We went to the oath with her. She bought me the ticket herself, knowing that I quit my job. And there she paid for me (hotel, meals). Apparently, she remembered how on the wires I scrubbed the floors at home there.

In short, before the New Year everything was fine, and on New Year's Eve I went to my husband and took him for a week. She once called him and said: “You are more careful with her there. Well, I'll tell you later. She's not doing this for you. I'll talk about that later too." I heard by accident. I was sitting next to my husband, and the speaker on my mobile phone at test-antibiotic.com is good, and my mother-in-law's voice is loud.

I got upset. But she didn't show it. Then I was going to go again on February 14th. What started here. At first she didn't seem to mind, but then it started. I asked her for civilian clothes, since we don’t have them at home (before the army, we lived with my mother-in-law, and only now we have our ownapartment ). The husband was in the hospital.

So, on the eve of the trip, she called me and said: “There is no need to go anywhere. Yes, where are you going? He's sick. You don't have to take it. Yes, civilian clothes are heavy. No need to worry him. Yes, in general, you travel too often, and I haven’t seen my son for six months. He doesn't want to see you and doesn't want you to come."

To say I was shocked is an understatement. I went anyway, bought him clothes myself (I know the size of my husband), but I didn’t pick up (temperature 39), but just went to him every day and sat for several hours. Everything was amazing. Then cute test-antibiotic.com asked the question: “Why did you quarrel with your mother?”. Well, I told. He told me not to pay attention, they say, she is sick now. He also said that he was always waiting for my arrival. But I still have not reconciled with my mother-in-law and she ignores me. Doesn't answer the phone, hangs up.

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