Тестерман Павел

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  • How to find your place in life?
    I am 22 years old and I am faced with the following problem. I can't find myself, and most of all I'm worried that I'll remain like this for the rest of my life.life rushes from one thing to another.At the moment I work as a lifeguard, I really like it there, but I understand that this is not my lim...
  • How to make the right decision?
    I’ve read a lot of life stories on this site and I also want to ask for advice. I have to make a decision because I couldn't changehusband .We are 27 years old, we have been married for 5 years, we havemy daughter and I are five months pregnant. At first everything was fineAlthough my husband is sel...
  • Who is right?
    I don’t understand at what point a separate budget happened in our family, probably when I returned from my second maternity leave. Until this moment this had not happened, maybe because I earned a lot.Now I am working, the work is very difficult, it takes a lot of effort and time, I often have to w...
  • I exposed my husband's sister and remained guilty
    Myhusband has an older onesister . She and I don’t get along very well, despite the fact that we lived in the same yard, went to the same school, but we were never friends.Unfortunately, she is often the cause of our quarrels. There's always something wrong with her. Been there twicemarried , two ch...
  • Why do women tolerate men beating them?
    I read a lot of stories here on the site whena man beats a woman, whether they are married or just dating, it doesn’t matter. Probably many people have such acquaintances,colleagues or neighbors. Maybe the roots of this phenomenon grow from childhood, if in childhood dad beat mom, or the girl was of...
  • The husband has not forgiven his daughter and does not recognize his grandson and son-in-law
    My husband and I have two grown children. Happyfamily , strongmarriage . But 6 years ago something happened that divided ourlife in terms of “before” and “after”.Olderdaughter divorced her first husband and leftmarried her lover and gave birth to a son with him. MyThe husband could not understand an...
  • I love you, but I can't forgive you
    I am 21 years old. I’ve been dating a guy for a year now (April 26 was just a year ago). We celebrated the anniversary in the best way possible, we had fun, danced, and naturally drank.When we went home no longer so sober, mythe guy knelt down on the street and started saying how much he loves me an...
  • Broken dreams
    I’ve been reading a lot of stories on this site for a very long time, I didn’t even imagine that I would write here. My topic is banal -treason ​But I would never have thought that she would come to our family. Someone will laugh and think: “she’s so naive!” I believed and trusted my husband, consid...
  • I just can't understand my girlfriend
    We met by chance, it turned out that we live on the same street, almost in neighboring houses. I am divorced and live with my daughter (3 years ago she was 13 years old), and she hasson , now he is 6 years old, she is also divorced. Eatlove , but there is no way to live together yet - minethe apartm...
  • Difficult moment of separation
    1.5 years ago I started dating a girl who is 3 years older than me, she is over 30, she hasson , who is 14 years old. She was not married , as soon as she gave birth, she left her potentialhusband , because I didn’t see support in him.A couple of months after the start of the relationship, she invit...
  • Weird girl
    Five years ago I met a wonderful girl. She was unusual, with scars, but these scars decorated her.We talked, walked and got closer to a relationship, but I took it and told her with my fingers about hercomplexes (she has a childhood scar in a visible place), because of which she was worried. We quar...
  • How I changed my attitude towards life
    At the moment I am 20 years old. There were ups and downs in life. It so happened that I even fought for mylife . I used to think, why do I need all this? Why does fate drill me like this? The fact is that I survived a terrible accident, fortunately I remained unharmed, then they found a tumor, and ...
  • Mom is against my relationship with my boyfriend because of his parents
    I am already 22 years old, I work, I live with my mother, sister and brothers. I met a young man, and we have been together for 7 months. At first everything was fine, myMom was glad that I had found a good young man and even sometimes fantasized about how she would babysit our future children and h...
  • I can't get over a toxic friendship.
    I can't get over a toxic friendship.I got used to my friend over the years of friendship, but now I understand that thisfriendship is toxic and does not bring me anything positive. On her part there is both passive aggression and veiled devaluation,competition looks at everything through the negativ...
  • Can I cope with organizing my own wedding?
    I perfectly understand people who do not like lavish weddings and prefer to spend this day with their closest relatives (or even alone with their now beloved husband).Sometimes it’s not clear to myself why people invested so much money in such a magnificent but tasteless performance for unfamiliar d...
  • I'm tired of this attitude towards me from my wife
    I am 37 years old, I was married for 6 years. The long-awaited child appeared, my son is now 4 years old. I worked from home, and my earnings increased very much, I stillspent the money on his family and wife. Yes, I behaved incorrectly in moments that demanded respect and understanding that I was v...
  • I had a fight with my girlfriend and all my friends
    It all started six months ago when I decided to resumerelationship with an old friend. He gave a lot of gifts and paid a lot of attention. Spent a lot of money on it.I am a student living on a scholarship and odd jobs. At that moment I became very attached to her, although I knew that she was runnin...
  • I thought girls didn't wear underwear like that anymore
    I met a girl. Graduate of the Pedagogical University, teacher. Originally from a distant village.I always wanted my futuremy wife was from the village, and I tried to get acquainted with just such people. Our city guys with their puffy lips, tattooed eyebrows and false nails didn’t attract me.She qu...
  • My new love is like a match!
    I am 28 years old, my ex-husband is 24, we recently divorced, we have a commondaughter 2.5 years old. FormerMy husband is not at all ready for a family, although he loved me very much. But I stopped loving him, because... Howhe's just a zero man .After breaking up, a few weeks later I met a man who ...
  • I'm tired of waiting for a proposal from the man I love
    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and have been living together for the last six months. I am 28, he is 30 years old. Looks like I'm that "fool" who is waiting for an offer to leaveI’ve been married for years and still can’t wait for him.I just don’t understand why he’s holding out any...